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Top 20 2012 EBONY HBCU Campus Queens Revealed – 36 Hours Left to Vote!

 

Since 1975, EBONY has celebrated Black colligate women—poised to make a positive change in the African American community—through its editorial franchise EBONY HBCU Campus Queens, which is, this year, presented by CLEAR SCALP & HAIR BEAUTY THERAPY™ ULTRA SHEA.
 
With only 36 hours left and nearly 1.5 million votes cast, EBONY has revealed the top 20 HBCUs whose Queens are in hottest contention for the 2012 contest.
 
The schools, in alphabetical order are:
 
 Alabama Agricultural and Mechanical   
  Albany State University   
  Bennett College   
  Cheyney University of Pennsylvania   
  Delaware State University   
  Fayetteville State University   
  Florida A&M University   
  Fort Valley State University   
  Hampton University   
  Howard University   
  Jackson State University   
  Miles College   
  North Carolina Agricultural and Technical State University   
  North Carolina Central University   
  Texas Southern University   
  Tougaloo College   
  Tuskegee University   
  Wiley College   
  Xavier University of LA
  

This year’s contest featured more than 40 HBCU Queens from across the country vying for the top 10 spots and a chance to appear in a September 2012 issue spread styled by CLEAR SCALP & HAIR THERAPY™ celebrity stylist Oscar James.
 
Voting ends tomorrow night, Thursday, May 31, at 11:59 p.m. CT and its still anyone’s contest to win—there is no limit to how many votes can be cast. 

Go to EBONY.com/campusqueens and VOTE! 

BOOK REVIEW: 19 Years Old & 19 Men Later A Memoir by Tenisha Gainey  

 

 

Piners Press

Paperback, $20.00

140 pages, Illustrated

ISBN: 978-0-578-05536-7

           

Book Review by Kam Williams

 

“I wrote this book as a guide for young women so that they won’t make the same mistakes I’ve made… I really needed someone to step in and show me that I could be so much more…

Because I have been in the bottom of the barrel… I thought to myself, ‘You can’t just sit around and do nothing when so many of your home girls are getting pregnant, chasing these no-good guys, and going down that same road you were headed.’

As I hear the latest statistics about young people—getting pregnant, contracting STDs and AIDS, losing their lives, going back to jail time and time again, and just living lives that were not meant for them—I know why they are there, because I have been in many of those places.

By the end of this book, I hope you will have learned the easy way what I learned the hard way. ”

-- Excerpted from the Introduction (pgs. 1-2)

 

            Although billed as a relationship advice book, this jaw-dropping memoir really reads more like the cautionary confessions of a wanton party girl gone wild who’s done it all and was lucky enough to live to tell the tale. Tenisha Gainey’s uncensored autobiography actually reminds me of the Jack Kerouac classic “On the Road,” between the relentless joy ride and the surreal, stream of consciousness writing style. 

            Yes, the author is ultimately Born Again by the end, but one can only wonder whether this belated convert to Christianity will be able to resist the temptation to revert to her hedonistic patterns. After all, Tenisha’s horrible taste in men and admitted weakness for alcohol (especially a mixed drink called The Incredible Hulk) led her to rack up a lot of road miles on her body before she had turned 20. That self-destructive path was marked by substance abuse, abortion, STDs, prostitution, rape, incarceration and involuntary commitment to a mental institution.

            A sucker for any guy with a flashy automobile, again and again the author made the worst dating choices imaginable. For example, she describes the night she impulsively agreed to be gangbanged in a motel room by some middle-aged, white men who propositioned her at a traffic light on their way to a poker game. She even felt flattered by a pimp who told her she was pretty enough to add to his stable since she’d attract a lot of business.   

            The tragedy is how she’d squandered her considerable potential, flunking out of Fairleigh Dickinson University, after having been seduced by the lure of making easy money. But the thrill of giving lap dances in seedy strip clubs, sponging-off losers for fifty bucks a pop in the boom-boom room, and sleeping with old dudes oozing AIDS sores down in Florida wore off after awhile.

            Before you start pointing fingers, try walking a mile in Tenisha’s hot pants and high heels. Well, on second thought, maybe you should only think about it. She was clearly a victim of circumstances during her formative years, being born to a 16 year-old single-mom and an absentee career criminal who was always out on the street or behind bars.

            How do you think you’d fare in similar circumstances? Fortunately, Tenisha’s doing fine now (cross your fingers), and the sky’s the limit with God as her co-pilot. The icing on the cake will be when Oprah options her life story for an inspirational, overcoming-the-odds biopic.              

Editor's Note:
"There is no such thing as a no good woman because every no good woman was made no good by a no good man." Most Honorable Elijah Muhammad

Another reason Black women must be Honored, Respected and Protected

 

River Naija Productions, a division of the Nigerian Chamber of Commerce-USA, has launched African Women Are Gorgeous International (AWAG) - an online lifestyle and entertainment platform that empowers everyday women of African descent to celebrate and share their inner and aesthetic beauty with the world.

The web site underscores newsworthy people and events, lending insight into the plight of the African woman and her desire to be recognized as beautiful, strong, self-reliant and integral to the sociological underpinnings of our world.

It also features sections on Health, Education, Beauty, Relationships, Fashion, Faith, Africa's Finest and the AWAG International competition; which is an interactive virtual beauty contest specifically designed to uplift African Women.

The AWAG International competition is the most popular feature of the site, enabling users to nominate their friends, colleagues and/or loved ones into a global voting pool for a chance to win luxurious products and services furnished in part by Burke Williams Spa, Villa Blanca Beverly Hills and Sprinkles gourmet cupcakes.

All are encouraged to visit www.AfricanWomenAreGorgeous.com and cast their votes for their favorite nominees. All are also invited to follow them on Twitter #AfricanWomen1 or "Like" them on Facebook.